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Your retreat weekend

Barefoot Resort & Golf · North Myrtle Beach, SC

We’re saving you a place.

A little room to breathe. A little more time for each other. We look forward to welcoming you into our homes as we grow toward the Abundant Married Life—with Christ at the center.

— Bruce & Yvonne

Arrival: Thursday, October 8, 4:00 PM–5:00 PM Eastern

Sunday cleanup is noon–2 p.m. You do not need to stay until 2 p.m.; feel free to leave earlier or linger a little longer. Most couples will likely depart by 2 p.m.

Arrive Thursday between 4 and 5 p.m. Sunday cleanup is noon–2 p.m., with flexible departures; couples do not need to stay until 2. All times Eastern. Our weekend menu is now available in Meals.

Each couple has a private bedroom and bathroom, with shared kitchen, dining, living, and patio spaces. Lodging, meals, and materials are included; couples cover travel.

Time to grow in spiritual, emotional, and physical intimacy—and to consider how God may invite you to serve together.

Welcome video coming soon.

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The weekend, at a glance.

All times Eastern.

Thursday, October 8

4:00 PM · Arrival window

Arrive between 4 and 5 p.m. Thursday. Worship and host introductions begin at 5 p.m.

4:30 PM · Charcuterie board

4:30–5 p.m.

5:00 PM · Worship & host team introduction

5–5:30 p.m.

5:30 PM · Newlywed game

5:30–6 p.m.

6:00 PM · Dinner and Couple introductions

6–7 p.m.

7:00 PM · Hearts and Rings

7–8 p.m.

8:00 PM · Dessert

8–9 p.m.

9:00 PM · Bed / free time / cleanup

From 9 p.m.

Friday, October 9

8:00 AM · Worship, breakfast & devotional

8–10 a.m.

10:00 AM · Travel time for guys

10–10:30 a.m.

10:30 AM · Men’s and women’s separate activities and lunch

10:30 a.m.–2:30 p.m. · Lunch will be served.

2:30 PM · Individual time with God

2:30–3 p.m.

3:00 PM · Couple time

3–4 p.m.

4:00 PM · Group share

4–5 p.m.

5:00 PM · Free time

5–6 p.m.

6:00 PM · Dinner: Love Languages

6–7 p.m.

7:00 PM · Dessert

7–7:30 p.m.

7:30 PM · 5 love languages discussion

7:30–8:30 p.m.

8:30 PM · Bed / free time / cleanup

From 8:30 p.m.

Saturday, October 10

8:00 AM · Worship, breakfast & devotional

8–10 a.m.

10:00 AM · Fun group activity

10 a.m.–12:30 p.m.

12:30 PM · Lunch

12:30–1:30 p.m.

1:30 PM · Couples free time

1:30–5 p.m.

5:30 PM · Formal dinner

5:30–7 p.m. · Bring one nice outfit for dinner.

7:00 PM · Dessert

7–7:30 p.m.

7:30 PM · Table discussion

7:30–8:30 p.m.

8:30 PM · Bed / free time / cleanup

From 8:30 p.m.

Sunday, October 11

8:00 AM · Breakfast, devotional, worship & communion

8–10 a.m.

10:00 AM · Couples alone time

10–11 a.m. · Special time of reflection.

11:00 AM · Group sharing

11 a.m.–noon.

12:00 PM · Cleanup & flexible departures

Noon–2 p.m. · Couples do not need to stay until 2 p.m. You may leave earlier or linger; most couples will likely depart by 2 p.m.

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Meals made for gathering.

Thursday, October 8

Perfect Pairings — Charcuterie Board

Meats, cheeses, spreads, olives, pickles, and sweet treats.

4:30 p.m. Eastern

Spicing Up Our Marriage

Chicken and beef bowls with rice, beans, lime, salsa, sour cream, and avocados.

6 p.m. Eastern

Dessert — Tres Leche Cake

Tres leche cake.

8 p.m. Eastern

Friday, October 9

Better Together Breakfast

Baked French toast casserole, fluffy eggs, crispy bacon or savory sausage, yogurt parfait, fresh fruit, and crunchy granola.

8 a.m. Eastern

Sisters in Spirit Luncheon

Chicken salad sandwiches with a fresh, crisp salad.

During the 10:30 a.m.–2:30 p.m. activity block Eastern

This lunch is for the ladies. The provided menu does not list the men’s lunch.

Love, Laughter and Lasagna

Classic Italian lasagna, a crisp Caesar salad, and freshly baked bread.

6 p.m. Eastern

Gluten-free lasagna if needed, as noted on the menu. Please confirm dietary arrangements with your hosts.

Dessert — Tiramisu

Tiramisu.

7 p.m. Eastern

Saturday, October 10

Sweet & Savory Start

Savory egg bites with crispy bacon and sausage, yogurt, fresh fruit, crunchy granola, and a sweet treat.

8 a.m. Eastern

Savor the Moment Lunch

Tomato bisque soup with sharp cheddar/brie grilled cheese, caramelized onions and fig jam; or mozzarella/goat cheese grilled cheese with sundried tomato and fresh basil.

12:30 p.m. Eastern

Steak and Soulmates

Grilled steak, twice-baked potatoes, roasted sweet potatoes with honey, walnuts and blue cheese, crisp salad, and bread.

5:30 p.m. Eastern

Dessert — Cheesecake with Chocolate Drizzle

Cheesecake with chocolate drizzle.

7 p.m. Eastern

Sunday, October 11

Rise and Shine Together

Fresh croissant sandwiches, a yogurt bar, fresh fruit, and granola.

8 a.m. Eastern

Drinks

Water infused with lemon/lime; sparkling water; Pepsi and Diet Pepsi; ginger ale; root beer; Sunkist; Sprite; coffee and tea.

Please share dietary needs privately with Bruce and Yvonne. We will confirm arrangements directly; an ingredient list does not establish that a meal is allergy-safe.

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Explore, together.

Saturday couples free time is 1:30–5 p.m. Allow for travel and return on time. These are optional ideas; confirm current hours and conditions before leaving.

Wander Barefoot Landing

A relaxed waterside wander with room to pause together.

30–60 minutes · Outdoor · choose your distance

No admission purchase needed to browse; food and shopping extra.

Venue hours vary. Check the official hours before leaving.

No booking for a casual walk.

Estimated drive: 5–15 minutes from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

Official details

What is a simple thing we would love to do more often?

A table for two at Blueberry’s Grill

Take a daytime pause over coffee or a treat; let someone else set the table.

45–60 minutes, plus any wait · Indoor seating / outdoor options · limited walking

Order from the current menu; price not confirmed.

Published daily hours: 7 a.m.–3 p.m. Recheck for October 8–11.

Check the venue’s current waitlist; no reservation has been made.

Estimated drive: 5–15 minutes from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

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What made you smile this week?

Slow down at McLean Park

A lake, meditation garden, and paved half-mile path offer a gentle change of pace.

20–45 minutes · Outdoor · optional half-mile paved loop

Casual park visit: no admission listed; confirm any parking charges.

Daytime suggested. I cannot confirm opening hours for this weekend.

Casual walk; reservable shelters are separate.

Estimated drive: 15–25 minutes from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

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When do we feel most at ease together?

Notice the marsh at Heritage Shores

Pause along nature paths and boardwalks to notice the water and wildlife.

45–75 minutes including the approach walk · Outdoor · primitive paths and boardwalks, plus a four-block walk from parking; not a limited-walking choice

No admission listed; check any current access or parking restrictions.

Daytime suggested. I cannot confirm weekend hours or trail closures.

Check park notices before travel; no booking made.

Estimated drive: 25–35 minutes from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

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What beautiful thing might we miss when life gets busy?

A playful round at Hawaiian Rumble

Enjoy a little friendly miniature golf, with permission to laugh at the imperfect shots.

45–90 minutes, plus any wait · Outdoor · standing and walking through the course

Current admission price cannot be confirmed; check official offers.

Published daily hours: 9 a.m.–11 p.m. Recheck October 8–11 hours.

Contact venue for current admission and group needs; no booking made.

Estimated drive: 10–20 minutes from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

Official details

What did we love doing together when we first met?

Browse Tanger Outlets · Highway 17

Explore the open-air outlet shops together. Choose a few favorite stores and leave time to return for the evening gathering.

Suggested visit: 60–90 minutes · Indoor shops with outdoor walking between stores

Purchases extra; check current offers and any posted parking charges.

Check the official center and individual store hours for your visit.

No activity booking needed for browsing.

Estimated drive: Route-dependent; check directions and traffic before leaving from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

Official details

What small thing would make an ordinary day together more enjoyable?

Walk the beach together

Choose a public beach access in North Myrtle Beach, including the Windy Hill area. Walk at your own pace, pause by the water, and enjoy an unhurried conversation.

Suggested visit: 30–60 minutes · Outdoor; uneven sand and walking distance of your choice

Check the city map for parking options and posted charges.

Daylight suggested; check weather and beach conditions before leaving.

Use the city beach-access map to select parking and needed amenities.

Estimated drive: Route-dependent; check directions and traffic before leaving from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

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What would we like to carry home from this weekend?

Wine tasting at Duplin Winery

Share a guided wine tasting at Duplin’s North Myrtle Beach location. Alcohol-free Sweetzers are also offered. This is an optional outing for couples who enjoy it.

Tasting about 45 minutes; allow additional time for a wait · Indoor tasting with outdoor patio seating options

Deluxe tasting listed at $20 per person plus tax; confirm current pricing.

Published tasting hours: Monday–Saturday, noon–7 p.m. Recheck before visiting.

Walk-in tastings; participants must be 21+ with photo ID. Plan a designated driver.

Estimated drive: Route-dependent; check directions and traffic before leaving from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

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What is something new we would enjoy learning together?

Play together at Jack Axe Entertainment

Try axe throwing with instruction, or explore Jack’d Up Games and its interactive challenges, including The Floor Is Lava. Pick the activity that fits your energy and comfort.

Axe throwing: 1 hour; published combo: two 1-hour activities · Indoor; standing and arm movement for axe throwing; games can be physically active

Axe throwing listed at $29.95; axe-and-games combo $49.95. Confirm per-person pricing and fees when booking.

Check the booking calendar for October 10 afternoon availability.

Book through the venue; review clothing, footwear, and participation requirements before arriving.

Estimated drive: Route-dependent; check directions and traffic before leaving from the main Barefoot Resort clubhouse; allow for traffic and parking.

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How can we cheer each other on when we try something unfamiliar?

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Small moments. More connection.

Choose what feels right for the two of you. No scores or private answers to submit. In this reading view, checkmarks are temporary and are not saved.

Physical connection
Emotional intimacy
Joy together
Spiritual intimacy
Shared attention
Shared calling
Abundant Married Life

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Arrive with room to breathe.

Your packing list

Start with essentials, then add what fits your plans. Checkmarks in this reading view are temporary.

We provide

Bed linens, Bath towels, Journals, Pens.

Finding your way

Arrival: Thursday, October 8, 4:00 PM–5:00 PM Eastern.

Sunday cleanup is noon–2 p.m. You do not need to stay until 2 p.m.; feel free to leave earlier or linger a little longer. Most couples will likely depart by 2 p.m.

Contact your hosts privately for your exact home address, parking, and entry instructions.

Ask for arrival details

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Help & updates.

Arrive Thursday between 4 and 5 p.m. Sunday cleanup is noon–2 p.m., with flexible departures; couples do not need to stay until 2. All times Eastern. Our weekend menu is now available in Meals.

Email Bruce & Yvonne

Email is not an urgent-response service. For time-sensitive questions, use the private host contact details provided with arrival instructions.

What will our time together be like?

Time with the Lord, time as a couple, guided table activities, men’s and women’s conversations, and indoor and outdoor activities. Share only what you feel comfortable sharing.

Is there a retreat price?

Previous participants help make this weekend possible through voluntary pay-it-forward gifts. We ask that you give as the Lord leads to help pay for future couples.

Where do we go when we arrive?

The primary location is 6244 Catalina Drive unit 212 North Myrtle Beach 29582

What if we need professional care?

We offer faith-based marriage coaching and education, not licensed counseling. Trauma, abuse, infidelity, and other serious concerns should be addressed with a qualified professional counselor.

When should we arrive, and when do we leave?

Arrive Thursday between 4 and 5 p.m. Sunday cleanup is noon–2 p.m. You do not have to stay until 2 p.m. You are welcome to linger, though most couples will likely depart by 2 p.m.

Carry it home.

Previous participants help make retreats possible through voluntary pay-it-forward gifts. There is no obligation to give.

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