YOUR MARRIAGE JOURNEY · RENEWED HEARTS

Marriage Compass™

An honest reflection. A meaningful conversation. One intentional step.

01 / YOUR PERSONAL REFLECTION

Begin with an honest look at today.

You don’t have to have everything figured out to take a step toward each other. Reflect on your spiritual, emotional, and physical connection, then consider where you would like to grow.

Complete this individually. Wait until both spouses have finished before discussing your answers.

How to use your Marriage Compass
  1. Complete the assessment individually.
  2. Do not discuss answers until both spouses have finished.
  3. Answer honestly based on your experience today.
  4. There are no right or wrong answers.
  5. Use the conversation guide after scoring.
No sevens allowed. Many people choose seven because it feels safe and neutral. Choose the number that most accurately reflects your experience.

No email is required to see your results. Your answers stay on this page unless you choose to share the summary below. Print before closing or refreshing if you want to keep your reflection.

02 / WHAT THE NUMBERS MEAN

Your marriage journey,
as you see it today.

These ratings reflect your experience right now. They do not tell your whole story, and your spouse may see things differently. Use them to begin a conversation with curiosity—not as a diagnosis or a grade for your marriage.

1–3

Struggling

This area currently feels disconnected, difficult, or neglected.

4–6

Growing

There are signs of health, but consistency and intentionality need strengthening.

8–10

Thriving

This area is healthy, intentional, and producing meaningful connection.

Your reflection

Select a rating for each area above to see your personal snapshot.

You can choose an area even if it received your highest rating.

Bruce and Yvonne King, Marriage Journey Guides

YOUR MARRIAGE JOURNEY GUIDES

You don’t have to figure out your next step alone.

We’re Bruce and Yvonne. We’d love to hear where you are in your marriage and what you hope to strengthen. Let’s begin with a 15-minute video introduction to get acquainted and explore whether walking with Renewed Hearts could be a helpful next step.

You don’t need polished answers or a completed Compass. You’re welcome to keep your results private.

Schedule a 15-minute introduction

Google Meet video call. Opens Calendly in a new tab; your reflection stays here. Booking is complete only when Calendly confirms it. Opening the calendar does not share your results.

Keep reflecting together

No time that works? Ask about an introduction.

Optional: share a summary with Bruce & Yvonne

You can book without sharing any results. Your private conversation notes, shared commitment, and spouse’s name are never included.

Please leave sensitive personal details out of your weekly step.

Exactly what you’ll share

Shared summaries are available for up to 90 days, then removed during the next service cleanup. Hosting backups may retain copies under the provider’s retention policy. To request earlier deletion, email Renewedheartsnc@gmail.com from the address you used to share. Summary review is restricted to the owner-managed ministry portal.

03 / SHARE & LISTEN

Listen to understand,
not to defend.

Once you have both finished, take turns sharing. Approach differences with curiosity. You do not need matching ratings to have a meaningful conversation. Your personal next-step idea above can help you choose one commitment together here.

ONE SMALL STEP

Choose your next step. Together.

This week, we commit to taking one intentional step toward a stronger, more connected, Christ-centered marriage.

If there are threats, abuse, or coercion, prioritize individual safety and specialist support rather than these joint exercises. When professional support is needed.

Keep your ratings privately

Save all three ratings to your individual portal. Written reflection notes on this page are not included. Saving is separate from sharing a summary with Bruce and Yvonne.

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